tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post2475285380124606616..comments2023-05-10T04:27:36.624-05:00Comments on Alchemy: MORE ADVICE PLS!!!Michellehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12867018103109905690noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post-88188927055183222712009-02-09T21:41:00.000-05:002009-02-09T21:41:00.000-05:00It sounds like my life a long, long time ago. I wa...It sounds like my life a long, long time ago. I was born in Ft Bragg, NC when went to Stuggart through kindergarten when we moved to Colorado Springs. I can't really give my opinion on anything except 1) Colorado Springs is beautiful, but the politics are just too weird - I moved to Denver after college. Colorado is still the best place to live. and 2) I completely understand about having your own money. It's amazing how many little part-time freelance type options are out there for someone who is smart, organized, and or has some talent (thankfully I have the first 2) so don't rule out working in some capacity if you want.Lauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02705794468520081880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post-77778045993670312442009-01-25T08:54:00.000-05:002009-01-25T08:54:00.000-05:00Wow Michelle--the decisions just never stop coming...Wow Michelle--the decisions just never stop coming! Just when things are starting to make sense...another big decision! I don't know what to tell you except that I think all of the options are good ones and positive things would result from all of them...so, I know it's not much help, but I think any choice is a good one in this situation. Good luck, this is hard!Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16468555077593097836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post-23035747099037490772009-01-21T16:00:00.000-05:002009-01-21T16:00:00.000-05:00Hey, been a little while since I posted on your bl...Hey, been a little while since I posted on your blog page.<BR/><BR/>I would personally keep working as long as possible. Build that savings up with your check and try to live on just his income (while still working). If you can bank your income for the next 6 months and NOT touch it.... then I say there is no problem not finding another job once you move. I think that test of will could open up yours eyes in many ways. Heck what do you have to lose? Looks like you could gain a nice pad in the bank for traveling if you saved up 6 months of pay!!! (win-win)?Shantayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03090648406038912566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post-17198279548341850972009-01-19T19:14:00.000-05:002009-01-19T19:14:00.000-05:00I feel your pain, for mostly similar reasons. I w...I feel your pain, for mostly similar reasons. I was planning to blog about something similar, so reading my future blog might offer some advice, but probably nothing you haven't thought of yet.<BR/><BR/>My best advice would be not to put the cart before the horse. You guys are in Hawaii, not Honduras, and you are JUST starting your life together. Germany or Japan would be fantastic -- but so is Hawaii...and Colorado Springs! That sucks that you have to make such a major decision so early on, and that you even have to think about it while planning for such a major event as your wedding! <BR/><BR/>I can tell you the biggest factor in our decision-making: money. Down payment on a house, a car, furniture, savings for the short and medium term...we could afford to live on Nick's income, but we will be much better situated in a few years if I keep working while I can. And I will feel much less guilty spending money in the meantime!<BR/><BR/>Isn't it ironic how difficult it can be to have options, even when you're looking at a win-win...?Nick and Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14407691603515809827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34124240.post-30552744078329260722009-01-18T15:27:00.000-05:002009-01-18T15:27:00.000-05:00MAN...I'd go for Germany in a heartbeat. You'd ne...MAN...I'd go for Germany in a heartbeat. You'd never regret the time you guys could spend together in your own place...discovering new things together. <BR/><BR/>And, since you are asking for advice...<BR/><BR/>I don't regret for a minute quitting my job or career path--well--except for the times I somehow end up in Banana Republic and realize I have to quickly find my way out ;-)<BR/><BR/>Good luck. All these changes...you must be one big ball of stress.Lindsey Broerehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207327855381039088noreply@blogger.com