Monday, May 26, 2008

Memorial Day

Memorial Day is a poignant time for me as the sacrifices our service members make for the freedoms we enjoy every day are near and dear to my heart. My dad's dad, my grandfather Hoppy was killed right before I was born in service to his country. He was a test pilot killed in a plane crash in the Philippines. My mom's dad is a veteran of the Korean War, he too was a career military man - a General before he retired.

My dad is a veteran too. He flew F-16's in the Air Force and fought in both the Kosovo air campaign and Operation Iraqi Freedom back in 2003 when we first invaded Iraq. In fact, when we first started the air campaign in Kosovo, my dad was the first to enter Kosovar airspace the night we started bombing - he was out in front ahead of all the other fighter jets, the heavy tankers, bombers and helicopters. We were living in Germany at the time; he was stationed at Spangdahlem AFB near Bitburg. He and his squadron deployed down to Aviano AFB, Italy, where the campaign was launched from. After the bombing had gone on for a while, the squadron came home and flew every night launching their missions from Germany. He would come home in the morning and sleep all day and leave again at night to fight the war. It was a weird, scary time. I remember when we lost an F-16 over there and my mom and my sister and I just sat riveted to CNN wondering... During OIF, my dad was stationed at Aviano AFB and deployed to the region. He wasn't in Iraq but at an airbase nearby. He was an Operations Group Commander at that time. I was about to start grad school and I flew home to Italy and spent those months with my mom.

Now my own boyfriend is a veteran - off fighting Operation Enduring Freedom. I asked him why he didn't call me yesterday and he said, "I'm fightin' a war, babe." His performance evaluation last year commended him for work "resulting in the death or capture of numerous terrorists." It's real. Even though it seems very far away from most people's lives, it's very personal for me.

My friend Matt, too, who's been in Iraq for four years now because he just can't bring himself to leave. He's also a veteran of the war in the Balkans, from his prior military service. I tell him he's a hero and he says no. Those boys and girls who are going outside the wire every day - they are the heroes. True, but so is he.

I hope on this Memorial Day that your thoughts go out to all of our brave warriors who are sacrificing so much to protect the ideals of freedom and democracy. Especially those who have made the ultimate sacrifice. They should never be far from our hearts and minds because their sacrifice secures our right to enjoy every freedom we have. I hope everyone has fun today barbecuing and playing outside with your friends and families, but I hope you pause for a moment to remember the men and women who died for our freedoms and those who are far away fighting for them now.


Visionquester said...

My friggin' Cross Fit partner just went from Blue to Green. If you don't know about that one.. he left his position as an Air Force officer (which is relatively safe as far as military service goes) to be an officer in the Army Infantry. These CrossFit workouts are named after fallen heroes that had once been active on the Cross Fit website.

I think about this a lot and I wish I knew how the miliary members would want me to vote...

I want to keep them safe...but I have a feeling that they would want otherwise.

Ughh... my dad marched in the parade today... Vietnam Veteran era Marine Corps ground troup. Served 4 years fighting in the jungle.


Michelle said...

C your friend is a brave man. Some people can't just sit by and watch, they have to be in history. I saw that some of the CF workouts are named for servicemembers who died in combat. I have spent some time lurking on the CF site :)

As for the voting, as former President Bush said, always be on the right side of history. I'll leave it at that. :P

Anonymous said...

Wow, you really have had a very personal experience--you know what it feels like to have that anxiety of someone over there, and honestly I'm amazed at your ability to deal with it all. I definitely did pause, and I hope people do daily.

Visionquester said...

I pray to God Michelle that I never have to do the "Joe" workout...

Thanks for posting this..